Living with Advanced Illness
A person with advanced illness…
may hurt…
- physically
- emotionally
- spiritually
may fear…
- not recovering
- losing independence
- being a burden
- being abandoned (by family, friends and professional caregivers)
may grieve…
- the loss of health
- the loss of roles, or previously enjoyed activities
- the loss of future plans
may need….
- time to reflect and/or to adjust to changes
- to balance rest and activity
- to focus on ordinary activities and/or to feel “normal”
- others to understand the limits that illness causes
- someone to listen
If you are the caregiver…
- actively listen and support the expression of thoughts and feelings (understand each person’s response is unique)
- if possible, offer practical support – shopping, or meal preparation, etc., or seek out others that can offer such support
- remember, it is alright to ask for help
- remember to take time for yourself
Hospice offers…
- professional counselling for individuals and their families
- relaxation therapy to manage stress and increase comfort
- vigil support as the person nears life’s end and does not wish to be alone
- information or referral to other community services
- a lending library of books and videos
- trained Hospice volunteers who may visit or offer respite
